1.
He
showed a very great interest and concern for one person -
The story
recorded in (Jn. 4:1-42) shows that our Lord set out to
win one sinful woman, and frequently He had an audience
of one person only. In Matthew's Gospel sixteen private
interviews are recorded and in John's Gospel there are
seventeen such interviews. How tremendously important one
soul is! In Luke 15 we read of one lost sheep, one lost
piece of silver and one lost son, and (Mk. 8:36-37)
emphasizes the value of just one soul. Let us remember
that the one we are seeking to win may be a Paul, a
Wesley, a Moody (vs. 28-30).
2.
He
went out of His way to win one soul -
Verse 4
tells us that He went through Samaria. He was willing to
put Himself to some inconvenience in order to win one
poor, sinful woman to Himself. Too often we are
preoccupied with our affairs and we pass by those to whom
God is giving us a glorious opportunity of ministering
(Lk. 10:31-32).
3.
He
worked under a strong sense of urgency and constraint -
Verse 4
tells us that "He must needs go through Samaria." There
was necessity for Him to do so. There was a soul winning
"must", a tremendous imperative in His life (compare Jn.
3:14 with Jn. 4: 4; 9:4; and 12:32-33). His very meat was
to do His Father's will (Jn. 4:3134) and this one was His
Father's will. Is there a constraint in our life (Rom.
9:1-3)?
4.
He
was friendly, winsome and sympathetic in His approach
-
He was not
reserved, distant, cold or self-important, though there
must have been a due propriety and certainly a marvelous
dignity about His person and His bearing. The Apostle
Paul longed to "win some" (I Cor. 9:22) and if we would
do likewise we must be "winsome" and we cannot find a
better illustration of this than that recorded in Lk. 10:
33-37.
5.
He
allowed the ordinary happenings and circumstances of life
to provide opportunities for personal soul winning -
Verse 6
tells us that He was weary and sat down, and probably we
would have made that an excuse for relaxing and being
"off duty". Instead of viewing His weariness as a
disadvantage He turned it to an advantage. How seldom we
view the daily happenings of our lives in the same way!
"I wish I didn't have to go on that journey!" we say,
without realizing that the journey itself might provide
us with a wonderful contact with a soul to whom the Lord
would have us witness.
6.
He asked a favour of the one whom He could win -
Verse 7
tells us that it was in this way our Lord established a
definite point of contact. People like to be asked to do
things. Ask someone in a friendly way, to direct you to a
certain place and see how, in nine cases out of ten, the
person you ask is delighted to help. All this is true in
relation to soul-winning. Think of some sincere requests
that you can make of the person you wish to win, and go
to him and ask for his help, and in this way you will
have made a valuable contact.
7.
He spoke to her alone -
Verse 8
tells us this. There are times when it is unwise to do
this. For example, generally speaking a young man would
need to be careful not to speak in private to a member of
the opposite sex; but the point we wish to make is that
we must not embarrass anyone by speaking to them of
spiritual things in front of others. There may be
exceptions to this rule, but generally the rule holds
good.
8.
He
overcame the barriers that she Put up and that already
existed -
Think of
these. First, there was the barrier of sin (vs. 16). This
woman was an outcast because of her notorious and sinful
life. She came to draw water at a time when she knew that
other women would not be present (compare vs. 16-18)
Second, there was the barrier of race (vs. 9). Our Lord
was a Jew and this woman was a Gentile. Third, there was
the barrier of sex. It was "not done" to speak to a woman
in a public place. Finally, there was a barrier of
religion (vs. 20).
9.
He
provoke inquiry and created soul hunger
-
Verses 10-13
tells how He captured her curiosity and interest. We too
can employ this method as we tell the burdened about the
Burden-bearer (Matt. 11:28). As we tell the bound about
the Emancipator (Jn. 8:36). As we tell the bereaved about
the One who is the Life (Jn. 11:23-25).
10.
He
did not reproach or scold her, but He made her face up to
her sin -
Until people
are convicted of their sin and thus of their need of
Christ they will not come to Him. Verses 16-19 tell us
how tender and how firm and persistent our Lord was. we
cannot convict people of sin, but the Holy Spirit can and
will if we use "the Sword of the Spirit, which is the
Word of God." (Eph. 6:17) We can tell people that because
they have broken the greatest commandment they have
therefore committed the greatest sin. (Matt.
22:37-38)
11.
He
spoke of that which alone could meet her need -
She needed
eternal life, as (verse I4) tells us; salvation, as
(verse 22) tells us, in other words, she needed
Him.
12.
He
concluded only when He had fully revealed Himself as
Saviour and Lord -
Look at
(verses 25 and 26). What a wonderful moment that must
have been for her, and for the people of Samaria (see
verses 40-42).